, how to? How do I show people I am in fact gay?

Wow, this sounds like me! I'm also very feminine, and I have long hair. No one has ANY clue that I'm gay until I tell them, and then I get comments like "really?? I wouldn't have guessed". lol You should try wearing something rainbowish, like a bracelet, necklace, earrings, etc. I have bumper stickers lol After a while people figure it out because they hear me make comments about girls and stuff. Don't cut your hair!! I also thought about making myself look more butch, but that's silly because that's not who I am. And there are plenty of feminine s out there so you're differently not alone. I would still go with the whole rainbow thing. Good luck!